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Moving Back In With Mum – a bit of a life update…

Hey cake chums and welcome back to Mr Baker’s Cakes: The Blog.

I thought I’d better get in touch with a bit of a life update as things have gone rather awry here at Mr Baker’s Cakes HQ over the last week or so and, as a result, you may notice some changes to my output in the weeks ahead.

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I WISH my packing looked this organised…

I guess it all started a week ago today, when I got a phone call to let me know that my mother had collapsed at home. Now Mummy Baker lives alone, which means that she is one of those unlucky individuals who has – up to now at least – been enduring this period of lockdown completely on her own. As you can probably imagine, I hadn’t been particularly happy about this, but ultimately it was her decision to make.

Thankfully, for whatever reason, she had come around from her collapse and been able to call my sister – who literally lives around the corner – and my sister was able to call 111. After discussions with the GP, they ended up dispatching an ambulance.

The paramedics weren’t immediately able to identify anything wrong, but collectively, we made the decision to have Mummy Baker head to hospital for further investigations. Obviously, that in itself is a tricky decision to make right now because one doesn’t want to risk exposure to Covid-19, but my take, as always with such things, is that it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Scroll forward a few hours and it turns out that Mummy Baker had suffered a pulmonary embolism, which for those of you who don’t know is when you have blood clots restricting the flow of blood to the lungs – a really rather serious condition, on a par with a heart attack or a stroke.

Thankfully, the amazing team at Southampton General Hospital were able to get her started on a course of treatment immediately and, after a week in hospital, Mummy Baker has recovered enough to be allowed to head home. She has also tested negative for Covid-19, which is a huge relief too.

Of course, we couldn’t have Mummy Baker come home to an empty house, and with my sister due to give birth any day now and my brother living a few hours away and coping with two children of his own, I made the decision to come and move in with Mummy Baker while she continues to receive treatment for her ongoing condition.

Oh, and you’ll be pleased to know that she is continuing to recover well.

Now, obviously I’m not normally in the habit of sharing quite such personal things here on the blog, so you might be wondering why I’ve made the decision to do so in today’s ‘life update’. Well, quite simply, my change in location does mean that there are going to be some quite significant implications for my online content over the next few weeks at least.

In terms of my weekly children’s baking videos – Mr Baker’s Cake School – I had already managed to film this Friday’s episode before my move, so, for this week at least, there will be no changes (and be sure to check out this week’s instalment as I will be announcing my BIGGEST EVER GIVEAWAY! For reals – you won’t want to miss it!).

However, from next week, I am hoping to still be able to cobble together some sort of filming space here at my mother’s house, however it might not be quite so… polished (?) as usual.

In regards to additional cake-related content, we will quite honestly have to wait and see, as, of course, I couldn’t realistically bring all of my gear with me, so I’m not sure what form, if any, this content might take. Obviously, it doesn’t help that, while Mummy Baker continues to visit the hospital for further follow up appointments and so on, we have to remain in complete isolation, meaning that I can’t go out to buy ingredients or equipment either.

I am still hoping to be able to continue to bring you our weekly #cakershour sessions on Twitter – including this evening, but as you can probably imagine, they might also be slightly less organised for the next week or so – at least while I am finding my new rhythm, so to speak…

But yes, that is where we are at the moment.

Thank you to those people in our community who have already been in touch to send Mummy Baker their well-wishes and offered support – it has all been very much appreciated.

I am only too aware of how much worse things could have been… If Mummy Baker hadn’t somehow managed to come around from her collapse or if we hadn’t made the decision to send her to hospital for tests – in honestly doesn’t bear thinking about. And it only serves to reaffirm my complete and utter admiration for the amazing NHS staff who are continuing to provide exceptional care, whilst facing one of the biggest crises the country has ever seen. They truly are superheroes.

Again, thank you so much for reading my lil’ life update and your continued support.

As always, until next time, happy caking…


22 thoughts on “Moving Back In With Mum – a bit of a life update…”

  1. Glad to hear your mum is on the mend. Family comes first every time so don’t worry about your cake fans. Could be an opportunity to re-run some of your early tutorials for those of us who may have missed them??
    Stay safe x

    1. Thank you, Marion. I’ll definitely be trying to share some old content, but hopefully I should be able to find a little corner to create some new too… 😉 xx

  2. I am glad to hear your mum is on the mend and I wish her all the best in making a full recovery.
    I know how serious it is as my mum had a fall in 2016 in her home and passed out. When she come to she was able to crawl to the phone and call my niece who lived 10 minutes away. She was taken to hospital but sadly died 48 hours later with my two sisters and I by her bedside.
    Take good care of her and yourself.

  3. Sorry to hear Mummy Baker has been so poorly, you must have all been so worried. Wishing her a continued recovery . Look after both of you before you even think about the rest Rob, we will all be here when 🤞🏻 Life returns to normal for us all.
    Lots of love
    Debbie xxx
    Deblicious Cakes and Bakes

  4. I’m so glad your mum is on the mend, and that you are all looking after each other. The blog will be here when you can, maybe we will be watching a “how to bake before you have fancy equipment” or a “Baking the way granny did” or “Mr and Mummy bake-along”
    Whatever and whenever, we are here for you ❤

    1. I’m trying to convince her to shoot a video with me, when she is feeling up to it, but I wouldn’t hold your breath… 😉 lol xx

  5. Am glad mummy Baker is on the mend. Please pass my well wishes to her xx and as you both can’t go out, if there is anything you need, please don’t hesitate to shout, I will do whatever I can to help. Accept get flour as everywhere seems to be sold out right now. Stay safe both of you, and advance congrats when your sister gives birth x

    1. Thank you, Jo. That is so kind of you. I brought a load of food with me (including lots of flour), so we’re ok for now. But I shall definitely let you know if we get desperate. Stay safe and well… xx

  6. Goodness you’ve all been through it there haven’t you? So glad with the outcome – keep on keeping on and don’t worry about ‘the outside world’ it will continue in some form or another until ‘normality’ can be resumed x

  7. Prayers to you and Mummy. Will definitely keep watching, love the content! Stay well. God bless.

  8. Oh what a time you have had! Not exactly ideal in this crisis but so good to hear Mummy baker on the mend. The NHS really are amazing to get her on the mend and safely home and well. And you too being there for her! My children and I look forward to your posts and think it will be fun and quirky to have the change of scenery. Im sure it will be brilliant as always. x

    1. The NHS have been amazing. We are so so thankful!

      There will definitely be a change of scenery next week – and let’s just say… I had never realised quite how blue my mother’s dining room is! xx

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